Lars' Wars

May 4, 2002 

Scandal at Ralph’s Marina Market 

Today Kevin and I went grocery shopping after watching Spiderman at the Columbia Tri-Star lot.  I really liked the movie, but it was hard to calm down afterwards.  Then, after we settled down and were completely out of Vodka (about 4:00 p.m.), we decided to go to the landlord’s house to pay rent and stop by Ralph’s on the way home.

I felt it was going to be a strange day when I saw a woman with the shortest miniskirt and the highest spike heels I have ever seen at Ralph’s.  It is not uncommon to see women in see-through knit dresses and spike heels, but these shoes must have come from a dominatrix shop on Hollywood Blvd.  They were black, six inch heels with clear plastic tops.  If one ventured a look beyond the shoes, you could see that the skirt barely covered her panties in back, and in front, it was about two inches short of covering the crotch.  I was still recovering from the motion sickness I felt at the movie, and so it was difficult to watch her make out with her man-friend in front of the French rolls.  I was trying to buy an Italian baguette at the time, but I refrained from picking it up for fear of stimulating them further.  Another woman came over to console me, as she could see that I was having trouble with the bread, but her conversation did not relate to what I was saying.  It was like we were having two different conversations that did not overlap.  As if that were not confusing enough, when we decided to check out, I went to the shortest line where an older woman wearing all black, Chanel sunglasses, and 3” chunky heels was staggering over her cart, trying to open a smoothie bottle.  When the plastic tab finally came off, she nearly fell down, but she grabbed onto the cart, which slid into the counter and came to an abrupt halt.  Then she proceeded to try to open another one, which she placed next to the half-eaten salad already in her cart.  I don’t remember what else she was buying, but she refused to pay for the smoothies, saying that she had brought them in herself.  Carlos, the bag boy, was having none of this, and so after she left, he reported her to the manager.  Carlos told me that the last time she came in, she fell down on the floor in front of him and started yelling, “I can’t breathe, I can’t breathe,” but evidently, an ambulance was not forthcoming.  The checker, Jorge, told me that the reason for the commotion was that it was a holiday, Quatro de Mayo, and he had not even seen the woman in the miniskirt/spike heels.

 There was more to this story, but I forgot it before I could write it down.

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Lars goes to the Accountants' Office

2002 March 19

I’ve decided to start keeping a diary on the computer, as it is easier for me to write this way.  So here’s, the scoop for today, Tuesday:

This morning I went to meet with the accountants in Santa Monica, and I had a little trouble finding the address because they are on Lincoln Blvd, and the numbers keep changing, seemingly at random.  Driving through Venice, they are in one order and then when you cross into Santa Monica, the order reverses, and so I was looking on the wrong side of the street.  I shouldn’t have been driving at all because of my Mars/Mercury transit (or whatever Mars transit I’m having now, but it feels like Mercury is involved), but since I wasn’t going very far, I thought the risk would be relatively small.  Anyway, I just decided to park when I got somewhere close and started walking because who knows where the back streets might take me—many of them have no outlets, and I had been to one of those on the way already.

I think the accountants must be lesbians because it was all women in the office, each one of a different age group and station, and I was the only one there wearing women’s shoes (NOSE, which look the same for men or women).  I talked with Cathy, who is probably second in command to Gail, the oldest and most experienced and also the owner of the company.  Unfortunately, I couldn’t understand most of what she was talking about because my mind would wander when she started using accounting words that I’m not familiar with.  So I told her I would send her an email with the information that I think she wants from me so that she can quote me a price, and then she can email me back to let me know what I’ve left out.  I was hoping I could just give her the shoebox with my receipts in it, but J.D. told me that that would cost too much.   

Afterwards, at the grocery store, an old woman asked me if I could tell her where the crackers with peanut butter were.  She said she had been directed to my aisle (where I was trying to get coffee) by one of the clerks.  I looked around, and all I could see was cookies, and so I told her that maybe she would have to buy the peanut butter separately and put it on the crackers herself.  Then she said that it was not for her and that she was buying it for the USO and they might not have utensils.  So I looked further down the aisle and found it for her, but I could only find cheese crackers with peanut butter.  She bought it anyway and thanked me.  I was still having trouble finding beans, and I found out later that they were stored in the “pasta” and “foreign foods” aisle.  I’m not sure why they are there, but I had looked everywhere else.  I guess they just had extra space there.  Then when I checked out, I got a very talkative checker who was 30-something, slender, and attractive.  He bagged my first two packs of diet Shasta grapefruit soda into double plastic bags and then asked me whether I wanted paper or plastic—he didn’t have a bagger to help at that time.  I told him I preferred paper because the plastic bags slid around too much in my car, and then he asked me if I was a wild driver because I reminded him of the woman in the “Where’s the beef?” commercial.  He asked me if I remembered that commercial, and I told him I was not a wild driver in my opinion, but that others may disagree.  For some reason, he couldn’t get the “Where’s the beef” woman out of his mind, and I told him that I could take the one bag with plastic and wedge it between some of the paper bags.  He suggested I use seat belts to secure the groceries, which I do sometimes, but I told him I only intended to take back streets to get home.  I was trying to avoid major streets because of my Mars transit. 

I thought about calling someone today, but then I thought that maybe I should write instead, and if I keep a diary, as I used to, I could just print it out and send to people in lieu of correspondence.  This may actually save me time in the long run and provide evidence, if needed, such as for the doctor’s office, which sent me a nasty notice that I received today saying that I had neglected to pay a bill from October and that I had been sent many invoices and please to take care of this overdue bill for $15 as soon as possible.  I checked in my shoebox for old doctor bills that I may have filed without opening, but I couldn’t find any, and so I called the doctor’s office and told them that I never received any of the bills for $15, and that I didn’t even know what it was for.  They told me not to worry and that they probably had not sent me any—it was all to blame on their antiquated system and that it would not happen again once they got their new system working.  They told me not to take it personally and that they had sent these letters to lots of people and it would not affect my credit rating.  The bill, it turns out was for a phone call I had supposedly made to Dr. Katz at the wrong hour.  They charge $15 if your call is made outside certain business hours, and so I was advised to call only during those hours, although I can’t remember what they are.  The hours vary depending on the day of the week, and so it is hard to keep track.  I don’t even remember calling the doctor, and I told the woman at the office that I could not remember that far back, and she said she couldn’t either—nobody could, but someone had written down that I had called.  I wish they had also written what I said.  So I’ll pay the $15 because I can’t remember, but this is another reason why I need to keep this diary.

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